Just find yourself

You loose your happiness and confidence each time you judge yourself based on other peoples success,skills, looks and way of life. What you don't know is that, the moment you start utilizing your own abilities and make the best use of all that you have been naturally blessed with or you have learn t in the course of living, people will instantly start looking up to you..All around you people are sleeping to their true identity and realities, following shadows and uncertainties, heading for disaster. Impersonating others and living the life of another can never bring fulfillment and real success to you, you will sooner or later wake up to the realities that you haven't taken time to build on your substance, it has all along being about other people. So lets wake up now and start creating our own lives and living it. There's nothing wrong with having people you admire, and learn certain things from them, but it is wrong to start comparing yourself to these people and judging yourself harshly. You are awesome in your own self, there are people out there watching and learning from you.

You need to get your Happiness, Confidence and Life back!

• Make a list of the things you know you do well with little or no effort...sorry no excusses.
• Find your strength and capitalize on them
• choose a role model                                                 
• accept compliment gracefully
• take proper care of your body
• stand up for yourself
• celebrate your differences
• ask for what you need

This is just a start on how to gain back your balance. We will now talk about how to get to know who you are and be happy with what you are.