I was doing a research on public view of needy or clingy
people, as I was getting concerned about my personal irritation of clingy
ladies and guys. For me, being clingy and too needy does not look good on
anyone, be it a girl or a guy, in a relationship or not. It’s plainly annoying.
And I think a lot of people agree with me on this too. For example, a lady who
wrote about how independent women are more attractive to men, shared this
“As a woman who’s experienced her fair share of personal
tragedy and failed relationships, I feel very strongly that a woman should be
completely independent of her man.
I don’t mean that you should never let a man do anything for
you. Independence to me means being able to take care of my own needs in a
healthy manner, with or without a man. Independence promotes self-worth and
self-esteem. It also gives you the confidence to walk away from an unfulfilling
or abusive relationship”.
That is true. Healthy, confident and secure men are usually
attracted to confidence and independence in a woman, before any other thing. And
like wise women. Only insecure people look for their type. Clingy, needy,
overly submissive, lonely and always need someone to talk to, always a ‘damsel
in distress’ waiting for rescue. This does not refer to ladies only, some men
act that too, clingy and all, and cover manning up with loving up. How more
annoying could that be?
I certainly don’t want to attract a man like that, and I don’t
expect anyone to. Both sexes. We all got to get up, be strong, and stand for
something. Else we should get used to
being the all cried out, all dried out doormat or discard when he or she trades
you for a hotter model.
You don’t want to be in Ciara’s bet you will start loving me
lyrics. Great song, but I hate sad stories. Our world is dangerous and unsafe, economy
is tough, and so you've got to get up, be strong, be smart, go beyond success
and get fulfillment!
