How True is Your "I LOVE YOU"

There's no sure way to know if a person truly loves you, but there are few ways to read the signs and figure out what is on their mind. If you'd like to know if the person you love truly loves you back, then you have to pay attention to how the person acts, what they say, and what they do when you're together. Though love may mean something different to every person, there are many ways to tell if a person truly loves you instead of just having a crush on you, liking you a lot, wanting your money, or just being momentarily infatuated with you. If you want to know if that person truly loves you, just read on.
In this first part ,I am going to focus on what the person says and then deal with the others another time. So, lets get started.....

1. See if the person talks about your future together like it's a given. If the person really loves you, then the idea of you being in his or her future is an absolute given, not something that he or she would ever have anxiety or uncertainty about. If the person routinely talks about what you're going to do in the future, about what your lives will look like one, two, or even ten years in the future together, then he's probably in love with you.

• True commitment means seeing "a forever" with another person. If the person talks about the future and always includes you in it, then there's a good chance they're in love with you.
• If the person talks about what your kids will  look like, where you'll retire together, or where you'll go for your honeymoon, then he/she may really love you.

2. See if the person gives you meaningful compliments. There's a difference between saying, "I like your new haircut" and "You have the ability to make me feel better no matter what." If the person gives you complements that show that he really appreciates the important aspects of your character and personality, then there's a good chance he/she really loves you.

• Your loved one doesn't have to shower you with compliments all the time — it's the quality, not the quantity, that makes a difference.

3. See if the person says "I love you" and means it. Remember that there's a big difference between "Love ya!" and "I love you." If your special someone really loves you and tells you this much while looking into your eyes, sounding earnest, and not wanting anything from you, then it's likely that he/she really means it.

• If the person undeniably loves you, then he/she will say it for no reason at all, not just because he/she needs a favor or because it feels like the right thing to say.

4. See if the person really opens up to you. If your loved one loves you, then they'll open up to you and tell you what they are thinking, feeling, fearing, and longing for. If the person really opens up about their childhood, greatest regrets, most painful moments, or most romantic dreams for the future, then it's likely that they like you because the person is so comfortable telling you anything.

• If the person tells you, "I've never told anyone this before..." then there's a good chance that he/she really loves and trusts you.

5. See if your loved one tells you how much he/she misses you when you're apart.If you and your loved one are apart, but he/she still texts you, calls you, or emails you to let you know how much he/she misses you, then it means he/she can't imagine their lives without you. If you go on a three-week vacation and don't hear a word from him/her, then it may not be love.

• He/She doesn't have to call you constantly to let you know if he/she misses you.

6. See if the person is comfortable with pointing out your mistakes. If that person truly loves you, then he/she doesn't have an idealized picture of you in his/her mind. If it's love, then that person will be comfortable with telling you when you've made a mistake, said something illogical, or acted badly. Though the person shouldn't criticize you all the time, giving you a healthy amount of criticism just means that the person really knows you in and out and accepts your mistakes as well as your best qualities

7. See if the person values your opinion. If the person truly loves you, then they will care about what you think -- whether it's about the new pair of shoes or the political situation in your country. love asks and values advice and opinions, whether it's on big or small matters. they may feel self-conscious about asking for your opinion, but he/she will do it because he/she loves you.

• He doesn't have to ask for your opinion on everything -- only the things that really matter. 

...OK, this is all I have about "what they say",now its your turn to tell me what you think on this part.
I will be back with the part two of this topic: "How they act". Cheers.